Hi guys,
Thanks for the personal replies. I appreciate the help. I re-read my post and I think I need to clarify a few things.
First of all, Heather
will be continuing the chemo. That was never in question. In fact, she has another round scheduled for tomorrow. It was all the peripheral problems I was concerned with. It now looks like some of the things will be addressed sooner rather than later. I was told today to expect a call from the insurance company. I guess they want Heather out of the hospital soon, so the docs are willing to try to speed things up a little. They will start using the PEG for feeding again, instead of for draining the stomach. And she will be seeing a swallowing therapist to determine if it is feasible for her to start taking some liquids or soft foods by mouth soon. We are in agreement that all this has to be done
very gradually. It is totally unreasonable to think she can just start eating normally again, but there is no reason why her swallowing ability can't at least be evaluated. And we have been told for weeks now that it is much better to be fed through the stomach rather than intravenously. So it is worth a try. If her stomach isn't ready, that's fine. At least we will know where we stand.
Anyway, we do seem to be moving ahead, albeit slowly. It appears that perhaps Heather is better off where she is, at least for the time being. I will continue to explore other options, but as long as she is improving, I won't rock the boat. The chemo is obviously working, so I will try to not get bent out of shape over the other issues. I will definitely keep a close eye on everything, though.
I still don't know a lot about the Cancer Treatment Ctrs. of Amer., but it appears they might not be as good as they sound. I was a little skeptical, which was why I asked if anyone had first hand knowledge of them. I'm sure they do a good job. I just don't know if they do a
great job. It was the fact that they seem to treat the whole person that was appealing, but that doesn't mean Heather would have a better end result there. Anyway, they are several states away and the insurance company probably wouldn't pay for it anyway. Although we are willing to pay out-of-pocket to help Heather if necessary, we are not independently wealthy and it would quickly become a burden. So we would have to be very sure that it would be worth it first. And I don't think that is the case with the Cancer Tr. Ctr.
Geez, I am so windy. I really have to start cleaning my house when I'm home instead of posting on this forum! I'm sure my husband would appreciate it.
BTW, before I get replies telling me not to let the insurance co. push Heather out of the hospital too early.......I don't intend to let that happen. I am anxious to get her home, but only when she is ready. She is still on morphine, TPN, lipids, antibiotics (yes, she had another infection), steroids (for the swelling), nupogen (sp?), procrit and something to prevent blood clots (I forget the name). Not everything is given 24/7, but it still is a lot of meds and most are IV. Her blood levels held pretty steady after this last round of chemo probably mainly because they gave her the nupogen
before the levels dropped instead of waiting until after. But I would feel better if they still held steady after one more round before bringing her home.
Gosh, I have to shut up! Thanks for listening.
Rainbows & hugs,
Rosie
P.S. Brian, please feel free to close this post. I think everything has been said that needs to be said and I don't want to cause any controversy over the CTCA or similar organizations.