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It's been two months after treatment. Jim is getting stronger; he tilled the garden and planted eight tomato plants a couple of days ago! He has been having some fairly good days. HOWEVER, this morning he was in terrible pain and sick just like it he was two WEEKS after treatment. It is so discouraging because he thinks things are leveling off and he's on the road to recovery, then he'll have a bad day like this. It is so unpredictable! So I was wondering if you experienced these bad days every once in a while during recovery? And if so, do you know what causes them?

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Debbie


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Deb,

At Jim's stage I was still happy to have a good day when I could get one. It's still early in the healing process so I would not be discouraged when a bad day hits.

They will become less and less frequent as he moves on out from the hard hits his body just took. As much as we would like to rush it and get a normal life back, it just takes time.

I can say that somewhere about 4-5 months out I was feeling much more alive and feeling good about being active. I'm 7 months out now and I do have many annoyances from my treatment but small stuff relative to how I felt at two months.

I don't think this is ever over, but it should start getting easier to deal with soon.



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Deb,

It's common to have goods days followed by a bad day or so and so on. I know I did but eventually all the bad days will give way to all good days (relatively speaking) so tell him it's just normal.


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Age 58 at Dx, HPV16+ SCC, Stage IV BOT+2 nodes, non smoker, casual drinker, exercise nut, Cisplatin x 3 & concurrent IMRT x 35,(70 Gy), no surgery, no Peg, Tx at Moffitt over Aug 06. Jun 07, back to riding my bike 100 miles a wk. Now doing 12 Spin classes and 60 outdoor miles per wk. Nov 13 completed Hilly Century ride for Cancer, 104 miles, 1st Place in my age group. Apr 2014 & 15, Spun for 9 straight hrs to raise $$ for YMCA's Livestrong Program. Certified Spin Instructor Jun 2014.
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Thank you so much guys. It's always nice to know when these side effects are normal.

Have a good evening,

Deb


Debbie, 53 wife and caregiver to Jim, 68, non-smoker, social drinks only. Stage IV SCC rt. tonsil. HPV+. Neck dissection 12/29/09. Peg inserted 2/2/10. Cisplatin and rad started 2/9/10. Carboplatin given 2nd round. 3rd round cancelled due to toxicity. Finished 30 rad treatments 3/23/10.
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Deb.... what they said.

I actually don't remember ANY good days for at least 3 months post-TX. So Jim is ahead of the game!

Hang in there, the worst is over!

D2


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Hey David,

I had to chirp in and say that every day I did not have to have my head bolted to a table and blasted with x-rays was a good day, even if I spent most of it asleep, which I did for a good number of days after treatment.

As bad as I felt I could always find the good side. Actually that would be the left side, which is the side I had to lay on to see the TV from my couch LOL


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Remember I said good days (relatively speaking)!!

A good day for me was being able to take a shower without feeling that I had just completed a marathon; that I wasn't tossing my cookies every hour; that I was able to eat anything solid and that I actually believed that the worse was finally over! Remember after being run over by a bus we must take baby steps on our path to recovery.


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Deb, I am kind of like your Jim. I have a few good days and then Wham and few bad days. Most of my bad days conssit of shear exhaustion and nausea. I try to remember what I did the previous days so I know if I did too much. Like the other day I was feeling really well and mowed the lawn. Well, the next day I paid for it. I was so sick I could barely get out of bed. He is not alone. I think all have that roller coaster ride.


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At least when we feel drained we can blame it on former treatment...not that we are getting older!


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Yes and let me clarify - Jim's "good" days are those when he can get through the day without nausea, can down two servings of Carnation Inst. Brkfst, and have a decent b.m.! But, hey, we're thankful! grin


Debbie, 53 wife and caregiver to Jim, 68, non-smoker, social drinks only. Stage IV SCC rt. tonsil. HPV+. Neck dissection 12/29/09. Peg inserted 2/2/10. Cisplatin and rad started 2/9/10. Carboplatin given 2nd round. 3rd round cancelled due to toxicity. Finished 30 rad treatments 3/23/10.
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