Hi Angelia,
I think we all worry. MArtin has a cough and I worry, he sneezes and I worry, we also have this swine flu pandemic here and I worry if he catches, if i bring it home with me, he won't be strong enough to fight it. BUT it's just a cough, a cold... Our consultant is very pleased with amrtin's progress and says the cancer isn't back.
As for children, Martin has a 17 year old daughter from a previous marriage. We had tried for children but then the cancer. Now Martin told me he was planning to get back to work seriously and save up for a year so that we can have a child and I wouldn't have to worry about money during maternuty leave. That's for next year, but he is positive... just very grumpy.
We need to be aware, but not worry it just ruins the good times.
Keep positive.
cecilia

Girlfriend to Martin 49 years old at diagnosis
Diagnosed with SCC unknown primary June 2008.
Cancer found in single node Stage N2A (3 to 6cm).
Tonsilectomy 16th june, Radical modified neck dissection left side 30th june.
30 TX radiotherapy ended 9th October
First comparative study scan came back clear