Posted By: Sandy177 Smooching Amphibians - 03-13-2012 08:41 AM
Alas, no fairytale ending.

It's been a year since we got word of the misdiagnosis. I didn't find an attorney. None would take on a doctor(s) in California. So, I took it on myself. I know...a person who represents himself in a court of law has a fool for a client. But, I had no choice. At least I've gotten the insurance companies to take notice. Perhaps I can negotiate a settlement. It's worth a try.

J has moved out and moved on. The kids are fine. Things are relatively peaceful. But, hellbent on justice, I'm still at it. It's tough being a pitbull. The lipstick only goes so far.

At least my mother's situation is resolved. That's a box full 'o drama that I have finally put on a shelf where I don't have to look at it or think about it too much. It feels good.

Now, it's time to finish mourning and move forward with my life.

So, after being married for the majority of three decades, I'm dating again. Yep. I did more than dip my toe into the dating pool. Mind you, this swimming hole is a treacherous place. The water is murky, the attire is much more revealing than before, and there are a multitude of reasons for the liberal usage of chlorine. And, there is no lifeguard on duty! But, I jumped in...feet first (I'm not stupid enough to go into it headlong when I can't see the bottom!) I joined an online dating site.

I'm having fun and have met some interesting people. But, ultimately, I would like to find someone special. It's looking pretty dismal, though. I guess I'll have to kiss a few more frogs...
Posted By: lam007 Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-13-2012 09:59 AM
You go, girl. Have a blast.
Posted By: Anne-Marie Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-13-2012 10:30 AM
Good for you Sandy!! For someone as special as you are, it may take a little more research to find someone at your level, who deserves your talents and what you have to offer in a relationship. And then sometimes, it happens when you lease expect it! Have fun! You so-o-o-o-o deserve it!
Posted By: Shelley K Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-13-2012 03:20 PM
I'm happy to hear this Sandy and just have fun with it! As pretty and smart as you are, you will have no trouble!! But I agree, you may have to kiss more frogs to find your prince but I have no doubt that he is out there!!

Hugs,

Shelley
Posted By: KP5 Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-14-2012 02:10 AM
LOL...Just remember what we have all learned regarding HPV.... Just kidding...sort of!!!
Posted By: Sandy177 Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-15-2012 02:35 AM
Thank you for the kind words, ladies! I really appreciate the encouragement. It's a whole new game out there. I'm reminding myself that it's more important to find the right one than to find one right now.

Oh, for sure, HPV worries me. I used to think all I was going to get from kissing frogs was a wart. Times surely have changed. smile
Posted By: seattlepaul Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-15-2012 05:43 PM
From a guy;
Perhaps if you thought of dating as Entertainment, what a collection of short humous (hopefully) stories you could write.
Perhaps start you out in a new career...
Posted By: Anne-Marie Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-16-2012 09:55 AM
Sandy - Stories (humorous or not) are a great idea! Your experiences could be very helpful to others out there, contemplating jumping into the pool. You might end up publishing your own "How-To" manual!! You could also start by making an outline of the "someone special" with the qualities you most admire and then let the universe take care of it for you (or see what the online dating site comes up with). It is so encouraging to see you taking charge and looking forward to a new wonderful life!!
Posted By: Sandy177 Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-21-2012 07:29 AM
Thanks Paul and Anne-Marie! I love those suggestions!

Sandy
Posted By: Sandy177 Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-23-2012 06:55 AM
Well, I'm the last person who would ever be qualified to write a how to manual. Oh, the universe delivers perfection and a little misunderstanding mucks everything up. I better just forget about all of it. I need to live my life and not leave any room for anyone to get in. It just isn't meant to be.
Posted By: Jeanna F Re: Smooching Amphibians - 03-28-2012 02:15 AM
Love you sis.....you go girl, and don't forget to email me pics for approval...lol!! xxxxx
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