Welcome to OCF, Sally! Earlier today I sent you an email with info about posting.
You are brand new to the recovery phase. I know its not easy for you right now. The first 2-3 weeks are the hardest! You probably feel even worse than when you were going thru rads. Taking in enough is a big challenge for most of us right after finishing rads. Im sure your throat and mouth are very sore right now so its not easy to eat and swallow, plus your sense of probably taste isnt working either. Best thing you can do to help with building yourself back up is to focus on whats within your control... your intake. Every single day until at least the first year post rads you need to take in at least 2500 calories and 48-64 oz of water. It sounds like way too much but right now even if you took in 4000 calories every day its unlikely you would gain any weight. If you have lost alot of weight during your treatments its even more important to push yourself to take in at least 2500 calories (3000 or 3500 if you can). I know its not easy to do and right now is the worst part of the entire "adventure". Many of us have gone thru it and we forced ourselves to take in enough. I didnt do so well with this and ended up hospitalized for malnutrition and dehydration a few times... NOT fun!!!
If you are having trouble with water intake watch and make sure you dont get dehydrated. Your doc can write you a prescription to get extra fluids in the chemo lab. Pay attention to any changes and things that dont seem right. Most patients feel abandoned by their treatment team when rads ends. Suddenly they are left on their own without the routine of going to rads and seeing their medical team almost daily. You can always post questions here and we will do our best to help you. Dont be afraid to call your doc either. All oncologists have someone on call 24/7 even holidays and weekends.
Milkshakes and smoothies are easier than many things. Also try ensure or boost to try taking in the most calories per swallow as possible. The following list should help you to find things you can still eat easily like canned peaches (these will slide right down) or cream soups (helps with sensitive mouth sores). I also enjoyed yoo-hoo and chocolate milk during rads and recovery plus the extra calories sure didnt hurt.
List of Easy to Eat Foods Here is a recipe for something I used to make and drink when I went thru treatments. This shake has anywhere from 1500-2200 calories depending on how its made. The list of easy to eat foods might help too, they mostly have a smoother texture and arent spicy which should be easier to tolerate. If you are ever eating and feel like the spices in your food have set your mouth on fire, milk will instantly neutralize the burning in your mouth. I also found room temperature foods were easier for me to eat or slightly cool. Anything hot bothered my mouth and hurt like heck.
(All measurements are estimates)
Giant High Calorie Choc-Peanut Butter Milkshake3 or 4 cups chocolate ice cream (regular/full fat type)
2 tablespoons peanut butter (smooth type)
2 tablespoons chocolate syrup
1 or 2 cups whole milk (can substitute half and half to add even more calories)
1 scoop carnation instant breakfast
1 scoop high protein whey powder (check with doc if this is ok)
Blend this extra long to make it very smooth and creamy so it goes down easier. If the shake is too thick, add more milk to thin it down to what works best for you.
Best wishes with your continued recovery!