Wish I didn't need to be here - 03-21-2015 04:55 AM
Hey folks! I've been dealing with this cancer since symptoms started in January 2013. I understand that many go through a period of being misdiagnosed by their doctors, and this was my case. But I was informed and had been asking them all the right question. I'm HIV + and I knew I was at a higher risk for cancer. Over eight months my HIV specialist, my dentist and two ENTs swabbed me for a sexually transmitted infection, TMJ (dentist gave me an expensive night guard I never needed), gastric reflux and saliva gland stones.
Here's the rub: Before I left each of their offices I asked them if my symptoms could be cancer because of my HIV status and told them all I was aware that HPV could cause oral cancer...and they all told me "No, it's not cancer."
I was informed. I've been told by my oncologists and surgeon that yes, I was asking the right questions.
I should have never hit stage lV.
Now I am committed to raising awareness in the LGBT community; make doctors and dentists cognizant of the need to exam for cancer - especially within the HIV population; and ask why none of the research studies look at HPV oral cancer as caused by a sexually transmitted infection instead of tobacco/alcohol or why no studies look at the prognosis of people with both HIV and HPV oral cancer.
Here's the rub: Before I left each of their offices I asked them if my symptoms could be cancer because of my HIV status and told them all I was aware that HPV could cause oral cancer...and they all told me "No, it's not cancer."
I was informed. I've been told by my oncologists and surgeon that yes, I was asking the right questions.
I should have never hit stage lV.
Now I am committed to raising awareness in the LGBT community; make doctors and dentists cognizant of the need to exam for cancer - especially within the HIV population; and ask why none of the research studies look at HPV oral cancer as caused by a sexually transmitted infection instead of tobacco/alcohol or why no studies look at the prognosis of people with both HIV and HPV oral cancer.