Getting more scared by the minute - 06-15-2013 06:33 AM
Who knew a stupid little sore would be such a big deal? Ack!
I just had surgery for a lesion on my tongue that would not heal, and was getting worse. Surgery was the 31st of May, am healing well enough. Of course it proves to be cancer, and every follow-up sounds scarier and scarier. At first the docs don't want you to worry about cancer, then it's gonna be fine after surgery, then we are being told radiation, and our 2nd opinion doc today scared me to death with talk of rad plus chemo plus feeding tube. Oh, and I have a severe anxiety disorder which mainly manifests as nausea and migraines. Only God's grace has gotten me this far without throwing up from fear (which I imagine would not be good for my tongue), but today has pushed that limit. And reading this forum, it sounds like second opinion doc is not so far off the mark.
FWIW, it was squamous cell, and probably HPV, which is baffling since I do not fit any of the oral cancer or HPV risk factors I can find, but whatever, it is what it is. Now I just want it gone! Preferably without sending me back to the dark ages of my earlier panic issues, which were finally under control.
Help! I am very scared.
Oh, and I am married, two kids, turn 38 next week. Only day of the week I do not have an appt scheduled, yay.
Kristen the Terrified
I just had surgery for a lesion on my tongue that would not heal, and was getting worse. Surgery was the 31st of May, am healing well enough. Of course it proves to be cancer, and every follow-up sounds scarier and scarier. At first the docs don't want you to worry about cancer, then it's gonna be fine after surgery, then we are being told radiation, and our 2nd opinion doc today scared me to death with talk of rad plus chemo plus feeding tube. Oh, and I have a severe anxiety disorder which mainly manifests as nausea and migraines. Only God's grace has gotten me this far without throwing up from fear (which I imagine would not be good for my tongue), but today has pushed that limit. And reading this forum, it sounds like second opinion doc is not so far off the mark.
FWIW, it was squamous cell, and probably HPV, which is baffling since I do not fit any of the oral cancer or HPV risk factors I can find, but whatever, it is what it is. Now I just want it gone! Preferably without sending me back to the dark ages of my earlier panic issues, which were finally under control.
Help! I am very scared.
Oh, and I am married, two kids, turn 38 next week. Only day of the week I do not have an appt scheduled, yay.
Kristen the Terrified