got info - 06-24-2004 10:41 AM
I finally got some info from my Friend on her husband. She doesn't know what stage or the size or anything. Will they be told that when they get the results from the removed nodes?
Here is what she emailed me with.
DONT REALLY KNOW AS MUCH AS YOU PROBABLY THINK.
ILL START AT THE BEGINING - MAYBE YOU HAVE HEARD THIS BEFORE BUT IT WILL BE THERAPUTIC I THINK FOR ME TO WRITE THIS.......
HE GOT A SMALL ( PENCIL ERASER ) SPOT ON HIS TONUGE ( IF YOU GO TO GOOGLE & TYPE IN ORAL CANCER GRAPHIC PICTURES YOU WILL SEE EXACTLY WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE ON PAGE ONE ) ANYHOW HE WENT TO THE DENTIST ONLY B/C IT WAS TENDER & MSDE EATING DIFFICULT. THE DENTIST SAID IT LOOKED LIKE A CALCIUM DEPOSIT BUT IT WOULD HAVE TO BE REMOVED BY A ORAL SURGEON - HE WENT TO A ORAL SURGEON WHO ON THE FIRST VISIT GOT OUT HIS DIGITAL CAMERA & ASKED CRAIG IF HE COULD TAKE A PICTURE FOR RESEARCH & STUDY. ( THAT WAS OUR FIRST REAL CLUE THAT IT MIGHT BE SOMETHING OTHER THAN A "CALCIUM DEPOSIT" ) BY THE WAY - IF YOU READ ABOUT CALCIUM DEPOSITS IT DID SOUND LIKE IT COULD POSS BE ONE, THEY USUALLY FORM ON MUSCLES ( THE TONUGE IS DEFINATELY A MUSCLE ) & TEHY ARE SORE. ANYHOW....
THE ORAL SURGEON SAID COME IN NEXT WEEK FOR THE RESULTS, NOTE* NOT I WILL CALL YOU OR CALL ME OR ANYTHIGN JUST COME IN FOR YOUR RESULTS. WE BOTH WENT IN & THE RESULTS WERE NOT IN YET BUT HE SAID I BELIEVE THIS TO BE SQUAMUS CELL CARCINOMA & THAT IS ALL I REMEMBER ABOUT THAT DAY - A FEW DAYS LATER THE RESULTS DID COME IN & HE CALLED TO SAY " WHAT I SUSPECTED IS TRUE" HE REFERED HIM TO A HEAD & NECK SURGEON IN KETTERING BUT I REMEMBERED WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT FIND A GOOD DOCTOR SO WE ASKED IF WE COULD GO TO A SPECIFIC CANCER PLACE & THEN WE CALLED THE JAMES CENTER. THEY INITIALLY SCHEDULED OUR FIRST VIST FOR MID JUNE, I SAID I DIDNT WANT TO WSIT & IF THERE WERE ANY OPENEINGS PLEASE CALL SOONER.
2 DAYS LATER WE GOT A CALL, A MESSAGE LEFT ON THE MACHINE THAT SAID "MEET DR. SCHULLER BY THE FISH TANK SATURDAY MORNING AT 7 A.M ) WHEN WE GO THERE - THE OFFICE WAS PRETTY MUCH CLOSED SO THEY COULDNT DO TEH CAT SCAN & BLOOD WORK ETC THEY NEEDED TO DO. WE MET W/ THE DOC, HE DID A PHYSICAL & SAID .........BASED ON HIS FINDINGS HE BELIEVES IT TO BE STAGE 1 HOWEVER SOMETIMES THESE CANCERS BEHAVE AS STAGE 4 SO WE WILL NEED TO CHECK THE NODES. HE HAD APPT AFTER THAT FOR CAT SCANS, PYSICALS, BLOOD WORK, EKGS, XRAYS ETC... & HE HAD SURGERY ON THE 15TH. THEY DID THE NECK THING & REMOVED PART OF HIS TONGUE.
HE WILL HAVE SPEECH THERAPY BUT IT HAS ONLY BEEN A WEEK & A COUPLE OF DAYS & HE STILL NEEDS TO JUST HEAL A BIT. RIGHT NOW HE CANT EVEN EAT REAL WELL - HE IS ON EXTREME LIQUIDS MEANING I MADE CREAM OF MUSHROOM SOUP & HAD TO DRAIN IT B/C HE COULDNT TOLERATE THE MUSHROOMS. BOOST, ENSURE, THINGS LIKE THAT.
Today was the first day she really talked about anything.
Here is what she emailed me with.
DONT REALLY KNOW AS MUCH AS YOU PROBABLY THINK.
ILL START AT THE BEGINING - MAYBE YOU HAVE HEARD THIS BEFORE BUT IT WILL BE THERAPUTIC I THINK FOR ME TO WRITE THIS.......
HE GOT A SMALL ( PENCIL ERASER ) SPOT ON HIS TONUGE ( IF YOU GO TO GOOGLE & TYPE IN ORAL CANCER GRAPHIC PICTURES YOU WILL SEE EXACTLY WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE ON PAGE ONE ) ANYHOW HE WENT TO THE DENTIST ONLY B/C IT WAS TENDER & MSDE EATING DIFFICULT. THE DENTIST SAID IT LOOKED LIKE A CALCIUM DEPOSIT BUT IT WOULD HAVE TO BE REMOVED BY A ORAL SURGEON - HE WENT TO A ORAL SURGEON WHO ON THE FIRST VISIT GOT OUT HIS DIGITAL CAMERA & ASKED CRAIG IF HE COULD TAKE A PICTURE FOR RESEARCH & STUDY. ( THAT WAS OUR FIRST REAL CLUE THAT IT MIGHT BE SOMETHING OTHER THAN A "CALCIUM DEPOSIT" ) BY THE WAY - IF YOU READ ABOUT CALCIUM DEPOSITS IT DID SOUND LIKE IT COULD POSS BE ONE, THEY USUALLY FORM ON MUSCLES ( THE TONUGE IS DEFINATELY A MUSCLE ) & TEHY ARE SORE. ANYHOW....
THE ORAL SURGEON SAID COME IN NEXT WEEK FOR THE RESULTS, NOTE* NOT I WILL CALL YOU OR CALL ME OR ANYTHIGN JUST COME IN FOR YOUR RESULTS. WE BOTH WENT IN & THE RESULTS WERE NOT IN YET BUT HE SAID I BELIEVE THIS TO BE SQUAMUS CELL CARCINOMA & THAT IS ALL I REMEMBER ABOUT THAT DAY - A FEW DAYS LATER THE RESULTS DID COME IN & HE CALLED TO SAY " WHAT I SUSPECTED IS TRUE" HE REFERED HIM TO A HEAD & NECK SURGEON IN KETTERING BUT I REMEMBERED WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT FIND A GOOD DOCTOR SO WE ASKED IF WE COULD GO TO A SPECIFIC CANCER PLACE & THEN WE CALLED THE JAMES CENTER. THEY INITIALLY SCHEDULED OUR FIRST VIST FOR MID JUNE, I SAID I DIDNT WANT TO WSIT & IF THERE WERE ANY OPENEINGS PLEASE CALL SOONER.
2 DAYS LATER WE GOT A CALL, A MESSAGE LEFT ON THE MACHINE THAT SAID "MEET DR. SCHULLER BY THE FISH TANK SATURDAY MORNING AT 7 A.M ) WHEN WE GO THERE - THE OFFICE WAS PRETTY MUCH CLOSED SO THEY COULDNT DO TEH CAT SCAN & BLOOD WORK ETC THEY NEEDED TO DO. WE MET W/ THE DOC, HE DID A PHYSICAL & SAID .........BASED ON HIS FINDINGS HE BELIEVES IT TO BE STAGE 1 HOWEVER SOMETIMES THESE CANCERS BEHAVE AS STAGE 4 SO WE WILL NEED TO CHECK THE NODES. HE HAD APPT AFTER THAT FOR CAT SCANS, PYSICALS, BLOOD WORK, EKGS, XRAYS ETC... & HE HAD SURGERY ON THE 15TH. THEY DID THE NECK THING & REMOVED PART OF HIS TONGUE.
HE WILL HAVE SPEECH THERAPY BUT IT HAS ONLY BEEN A WEEK & A COUPLE OF DAYS & HE STILL NEEDS TO JUST HEAL A BIT. RIGHT NOW HE CANT EVEN EAT REAL WELL - HE IS ON EXTREME LIQUIDS MEANING I MADE CREAM OF MUSHROOM SOUP & HAD TO DRAIN IT B/C HE COULDNT TOLERATE THE MUSHROOMS. BOOST, ENSURE, THINGS LIKE THAT.
Today was the first day she really talked about anything.