Hi Don,

You're complaints have merit and are welcome here! I finished my surgery and radiation treatment 3 years ago and still have issues though not as severe as what you have described. In many ways, I see my cancer experience as a blessing. I found a deeper faith than I ever imagined. My wife says I am more present with family and special events (less drawn towards work, work, work!), quicker to take a vacation day and spend time with close friends, etc. I volunteer more readily in my community, more active at church, etc. Yes, my speech is slurred. Yes, I have million miler club status with my dentist, Yes, I have large scars on my neck and arms. Yes, my neck is tight and ball of tension. Yes, I worry about cancer coming back. Yes, it takes me forever to eat. Yes, I have to be careful of anything spicy. Yadda, yadda, yadda. I would not wish cancer on anyone but I am extremely grateful for the many gifts cancer gave me.

Stay safe and keep the faith,
Nels