I agree about the selective memory in men ...
I often get "did i say that? I don't remember" but I make allowances at the moment. He doesn't mean to be mean when he is, I know he is angry with himself as illogical as it seems.
But now he is better, i do feel a lot better too.

Girlfriend to Martin 49 years old at diagnosis
Diagnosed with SCC unknown primary June 2008.
Cancer found in single node Stage N2A (3 to 6cm).
Tonsilectomy 16th june, Radical modified neck dissection left side 30th june.
30 TX radiotherapy ended 9th October
First comparative study scan came back clear