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Liz in the UK
Husband Robin aged 44 years Dx 8th Dec 2006 poorly differentiated SCC tongue with met to neck T1N2cM0 Surgery and Radiation.Finished TX April 2007
Recurrence June/07 died July 29th/07.
Never take your eye off the ball, it may just smack you in the mouth.
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Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 939 | Yep Liz, sometimes all we can do is post an emoticon..words fail us! Deb
Deb..caregiver to husband, age 63 at diagnosis, former smoker who quit in 1997.
DIAGNOSIS: 6/26/07 SCC right tonsil/BOT T4N0M0
TREATMENT START: 8/9/07 cisplatin/taxol X 7..IMRT twice daily X 31.5.
TREATMENT END: 10/1/07
PEG OUT: 1/08
PORT OUT: 4/09
FOLLOWUP: Now only annual exams. ALL CLEAR!
Passed away 1/7/17 RIP Bill
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Joined: Feb 2005 Posts: 2,019 | I sure feel like words are failing me. I am so sorry to learn of these latest results, Minnie, though you sound like you're handling the news amazingly well. I know you and your doctors will fight this with every trick in the book and with your attitude, skilled doctors, and so many people keeping you in their prayers, there's plenty of reason for hope.
But I just hate that you have to go through another battle.
Nelie
SCC(T2N0M0) part.glossectomy & neck dissect 2/9/05 & 2/25/05.33 IMRT(66 Gy),2 Cisplatin ended 06/03/05.Stage I breast cancer treated 2/05-11/05.Surgery to remove esophageal stricture 07/06, still having dilatations to keep esophagus open.Dysphagia. "When you're going through hell, keep going"
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Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,357 Likes: 5 | Minnie: I read about your most recent results yesterday but it has taken me until today to try to think of the right thing(s) to say. Firstly, I sooooooooooo know where you are coming from re acceptance. The first time you are diagnosed it is total fear, shock and horror. The second time is almost like the "other shoe has dropped". I too have entered the acceptance phase where my fears are far less. I tend to like to have things in my control - I think busy women have to be a bit controlling just to get things done, and I think through the first two cancer experiences I tried to control the process and the results. I have now come to accept that "all of this" is totally beyond my control. I now realize that (speaking personally) - it is in God's hands, and I can let the fear go.
Having said that, I sometimes wonder whether my "acceptance" denotes any lack of fight. I know that for you the acceptance has not lessened your fighting spirit and you are now fighting in a quieter but just as determined manner.
My thoughts are with you and your family. I feel sure that you will get through this 3rd round of treatment very well. Keep us posted.
Donna
Donna,69, SCC L Tongue T2N1MO Stg IV 4/04 w/partial gloss;32 radtx; T2N2M0 Stg IV; R tongue-2nd partial gloss w/graft 10/07; 30 radtx/2 cispl 2/08. 3rd Oral Cancer surgery 1/22 - Stage 1. 2022 surgery eliminated swallowing and bottom left jaw. Now a “Tubie for Life”.no food envy - Thank God! Surviving isn't easy!!!! .Proudly Canadian - YES, UNIVERSAL HEALTH CARE IS WONDERFUL! (Not perfect but definitely WONDERFUL)
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Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 93 | Minnie,
I'm so sorry you are having to go through this $#@&*%% again. Your strength and attitude is amazing, and will get you and your family through this next round of treatment. It is such an evil cancer..but as they say "you have cancer, it doesn't have you". My best to you and your wonderful family....you all will be in my thoughts.
Nancy
Caregiver to sister Connie, dx 2005, scc tongue, 4 surgeries inc. radical left side neck dissection 7/06, 35 IMRT, and 7 cisplatin 2/07, passed away 8-11-07, 51 yrs. young, fought with courage, strength and grace, found peace on her new journey.
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Joined: May 2007 Posts: 104 | Minnie, I have been following your story. I am keeping you in my prayers. You have my heartfelt concern. Linda
Jordan's Mom. Linda
She fought the fight with courage, hope and dedication. Ten months of battling tongue cancer. They thought they had it after each treatment. Not to be. Christa died at 32 y/o in Nov. '07.
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Joined: Dec 2003 Posts: 2,606 Likes: 2 | Minnie,
I am truly saddened to hear of yet another battle looming on the near horizon for you. I know I speak for many in wishing there was something I could do to help you. I think that feeling of helplessness is even worse than any type of fear. I will be praying fervently for you and your family that His love will provide comfort and His grace will always be sufficient for all your needs. I also pray for His wisdom and His guidance to your entire medical team that they may develop the best possible treatment plan and carry out that plan to precision so that you may enjoy life to its fullest. I am sending my love to you and to your wonderful family. Though the burdens be great, rest assured that He will always be with you.
God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging.
YBIC,
Ed
SCC Stage IV, BOT, T2N2bM0
Cisplatin/5FU x 3, 40 days radiation
Diagnosis 07/21/03 tx completed 10/08/03
Post Radiation Lower Motor Neuron Syndrome 3/08.
Cervical Spinal Stenosis 01/11
Cervical Myelitis 09/12
Thoracic Paraplegia 10/12
Dysautonomia 11/12
Hospice care 09/12-01/13.
COPD 01/14
Intermittent CHF 6/15
Feeding tube NPO 03/16
VFI 12/2016
ORN 12/2017
Cardiac Event 06/2018
Bilateral VFI 01/2021
Thoracotomy Bilobectomy 01/2022
Bilateral VFI 05/2022
Total Laryngectomy 01/2023
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Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 718 | Wow, Minnie, I am in constant awe of your strength and spirit. You are an inspiration to all.
Margaret
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C/G: Husband, 48 (at time of dx)
Dx 5/18/07 SCC, BOT, lymph node involvement. T1N2BM0. (Stage 4a, G2/3)
Tx 6/18 - 8/3/07, IMRT x 33 Cisplatin x3 (stopped after 1st dose due to hearing issues). Weekly Erbitux started 6/27/07 completed 8/6/07.
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Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 346 | I will be thinking of you Minnie. Please keep us posted as to results of the biopsies. Your strength is coming from deep within
through a deep resolve to make it through another hurdle.
Keep up the fight. WE are all wishing you through this thing.
May you find peace.
Debbie
Partial mandibulectomy and neck dissection 2/3/07. T2NOMO.
Had 14 hour operation which included reconstruction of jaw.
Reconstruction failed. Some radiation, no chemo.
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Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 583 | Minnie,
I am so sorry that you have to fight this demon again! I will be thinking of you.
I do know what you mean about accepting what you have to do. It is a strange feeling but it works. You just keep doing what must be done. One step after the other so to speak.
I pray this will be your last time and be cancer free...!!! FOR GOOD! OK?
Bye for now.. Diane
2004 SCC R.tip 1/4 tongue Oct. 2005 R. Neck SCC cancer/Chemo Cisplatin 2x/8wks. Rad. Removed Jugular vein, Lymph gland & some neck muscle. TX finished 1/20/06... B.Cancer 3/29/07 Finished 6/07 Bi-op 7/15/09 SCC in-situ, laser surgery removed from 1st. sight. Right jaw replacement 11/3/14. 9 yrs cancer free as of Jan. 2015
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