| Joined: Feb 2014 Posts: 24 "OCF Canuck" Member | OP "OCF Canuck" Member Joined: Feb 2014 Posts: 24 | Thank for all the great advise. We are in Calgary. I'm going to start making calls starting Tuesday Monday is a holiday here.
I'm really concerned because we feel the lump is getting bigger. Everyday he says it feels bigger and I'm worried it could be aggressive. We have a friend who does MRI and can squeeze us in anytime just need the req.
Any advise is helpful.
Caregiver to Husband Hubby Age 43 Was diagonosed with Buccual Muccusa Squomous Cell Carcinoma on Feb 13, 2014 T2 N2(not 100% sure if they are malignant) Stage 2 or 3 Not sure bc of Nodes Surgery took place on March 17. They removed the tumor with 2 mm margins. Flap from left arm inserted into Cheek. Skin graft from left thigh to put on donor site. 37 nodes removed. 3 at level 1 malignant.
| | | | Joined: Aug 2013 Posts: 21 Member | Member Joined: Aug 2013 Posts: 21 | [quote=ChristineB] During rads a patient should be taking in a minimum of 2500 or even 3000 calories every day. Water intake minimums are 48oz, but some will say much higher is necessary like 80 oz daily. This is one of the most important things that can be done. Its controllable in a whirlwind of things that are out of control. Its not easy to take this much in but it will help the patient get thru everything so much easier. [/quote]
I learned the hard way the incredible importance of this; first time (14yrs ago) I had chemo/rad and refused the feeding tube, lost 25% of my total weight and that made everything much more difficult - second time (surgery+rad) I had the feeding tube put in, maintained my weight which vastly improved my ability to maintain my attitude/strength. It's critical.
Joe SCC BOT T3N0 Aged 36 (1999) Unknown HPV status (before they knew) SWOG Protocol - 2 rounds chemo, 6 weeks radiation Recurrence Age 50 (2013) - same site SCCa BOT T2N0M0 HPV negative 60% Glossectomy/Free Flap from Latissimus Dorsi Recon, Neck Dissection + 6wks Rad Tx Non-tobacco user
| | | | Joined: Feb 2014 Posts: 24 "OCF Canuck" Member | OP "OCF Canuck" Member Joined: Feb 2014 Posts: 24 | We went an saw the ENT last week. HE gave us the diagonisis and told us our staging. Not 100% stage 3 but for sure Stage 2. The cancer has spread to the corner of his mouth on the inside so we have been told that they will have to remove the corner of his mouth and he will look different. Which has hubby a little concerned. We have an appt on March 12 with the Cancer center for a second opinion ... we didnt request this ... it was offered. We will also see the Rad oncologist at that time and other support people.
Hoping some of you have been through this kind of surgery and can offer some advise on what we need to know going in. He will be in the hospital for 10 days after surgery. Feeding tube in the nose and a trek in the throat. They are doing a neck disection to get the nodes and then they will biopsy them.
He does not want the feeding tube when we come home. He is adement about that.
Any advise would help
Caregiver to Husband Hubby Age 43 Was diagonosed with Buccual Muccusa Squomous Cell Carcinoma on Feb 13, 2014 T2 N2(not 100% sure if they are malignant) Stage 2 or 3 Not sure bc of Nodes Surgery took place on March 17. They removed the tumor with 2 mm margins. Flap from left arm inserted into Cheek. Skin graft from left thigh to put on donor site. 37 nodes removed. 3 at level 1 malignant.
| | | | Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) | Patient Advocate (old timer, 2000 posts) Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,671 | It really sounds like you are taking some positive steps towards getting things done. It is so important to find out everything you and your husband can do in order to be prepared to be in control of whatever you have to take care of. If your husband is not a computer type or just doesn't like to come on this forum, what you can do is print out the important suggestions you see here that you feel apply to yours and your husband's situation. In the beginning of my son's treatment, (he was a Stage 2 SCC) he was only on here for a short time and said it made him sad to read about some of the things others are facing. He was already in therapy for depression, so I did understand and didn't want to push him to come here. When he resisted things I told him from what I learned here, I just printed out everything I knew he could benefit from and just leave it someplace when he woke up and he did read it! And it did make a difference. Anyone facing such a catastrophic illness, is facing so many things that seem out of his/her control. Oral cancer takes away so many things - they way you eat, the way you look, speak, etc. - So if you can help him to feel in control, it goes a long way to beating this disease. My son resented having his mother (me) telling him what to do, so I would leave even the smallest decisions up to him by always giving him choices for example "you want one scrambled egg, or two", etc.
Now, about the feeding tube, the final decision has to be his. My son didn't want it either but we didn't know all the pros and cons at the time (you can look them up on this forum for yourself and see what you/your husband think). Paul did have a really rough time with the effects of Rad Tx and my heart just broke each time I saw him try to eat with all the blisters and sores in his mouth, - he had grown so thin with all the weight he lost. There is a lot of info on this site on tube feeding, so see what questions you and your husband can come up with for the doctors or for anyone here. Do come here often and let us know how you both are doing. You can get through this! You have lots of support from everyone here!
Anne-Marie CG to son, Paul (age 33, non-smoker) SCC Stage 2, Surgery 9/21/06, 1/6 tongue Rt.side removed, +48 lymph nodes neck. IMRTx28 completed 12/19/06. CT scan 7/8/10 Cancer-free! ("spot" on lung from scar tissue related to Pneumonia.)
| | | | Joined: Jun 2013 Posts: 262 Gold Member (200+ posts) | Gold Member (200+ posts) Joined: Jun 2013 Posts: 262 | Hi there, I just want to say that it certainly sounds as though you're doing everything you need to be doing, and I hope it all goes smoothly for you and your husband. I think it's great that you're getting a 2nd opinion, if for no other reason than to have confidence in your treatment plan.
Your husband's opposition to a tube may motivate him to push himself to eat, so it could be a good thing. Since he'll have an NG tube post-surgery, there's no need to make decision right now about a long-term tube.
Good luck!
53 T3N2aM0 HPV+ 5/26/13 discovered painless superball-sized lymph node in neck 6/26/13 DX SCC R palatine tonsil 7/16/13 TORS tonsillectomy & selective ND, mets to 2 nodes 9/3/13 Cisplatin and rads begin, tolerated 1.5 of 3 planned chemo doses 10/16/13 Treatment ends Dec 13 Ulcer appears at surgery site Jan 17 Biopsy -- no cancer! Feb 17 CT/PET Scan lights up tonsil bed & nasal cavity, docs say probably inflammation, don't panic, rescan when ulcer subsides
| | | | Joined: Sep 2013 Posts: 105 "OCF Canuck" Senior Member (100+ posts) | "OCF Canuck" Senior Member (100+ posts) Joined: Sep 2013 Posts: 105 | Hello there, I think the surgeons prefer testing the lymph nodes once they are removed to prevent any chances of any spreading and to be certain not to miss anything as they would be testing all the tissue.
As far as the trachea, it was dificult for my husband to cough up the phlegm caught in his lungs from the surgery but he worked very hard at it. This was one of the main reasons I stayed at his side day and night helping out with the suctioning through his trachea.
You probably already know that you need to conserve your energy whenever possible and get lots of long nights of sleep for when its impossible. This definitly has been the longest and most exhausting year of my life but I also have gained a lot of faith and inner strength.
I hope you are holding out well, Sophie
husband 61@diagnosis painter 6/9/13 Exophylic invasive SCC IV(ext.gingivobuccal) 3cm+ mandibular/lytic/erosion, jugular/node9mmshort-axis 17/9/13 Dx(moderately aggressive) 24/10/13 left madiblectomy, mod radical neck disct, leg flap, NGtube 2/01/14 (30 tx)rads 60gy N2b (2nodes under jaw) (rem. in tiny nerves) (rem. 30 nodes) Clear margin, close 2mm inner cheek 15/05/14 cellulitis 3/12/14 Chest CT Clear 27/02/15 cellulitis 8/6/15 cellulitis 10/6/15 Osteomyelitis
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