I agree it is nice to know what might lie ahead but don't you think using "kiss your a** goodbye" is a little strong or at the least a little un-called for? I'm just wondering how many other "new" people on this site got that message, and if they did what did that do to their mental capacity in this game? I am trying to get good advice and also am trying hard, very hard to keep a good mental attitude throughout this entire journey, and that little phrase just shook me! Maybe it's me being a little "thin skinned" due to where I am at in this process. Who knows????????????????????