So sorry to hear about your Vicki. I know you want to do something to take the pain and problems away, but.....
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Care giver to my husband - left jawbone removal, neck dissection, removed 57 lymph nodes in March 2003. Jaw reconstructed from leg bone. Has had continuous pain for 6 years,pain level 8 on a scale of 10 even though he is on fentynal patches, morphine, vicodin. Three pain clincs, 2 attempts to kill the damaged nerve all to no avail. Swollen cheek all the time, pain level over the top - he is also the love of my life and I cannot take the pain away. God Bless