Okay, well, what a road this has been so far and my Dad hasn't even officially started treatments.

we have gotten so much feedback from every Dr. we talked to and I swear the left hand didn't know what the right was thinking, but...I finally got on the phone. I live in IL and Dad lives in MI, which is where treatments will happen, but everytime he talked to someone they would tell him something different than the last.

So, I called all the offices and coordinated everything from Chemo port and PEG insertion, to tooth extrractions with the start date of treatments. They were literally sending my Dad in 10 different directions and no guidance.

Now it is set...he gets the PEG and chemo port on the 20th, then starts chemo on the 24th. Treatments for 5 days straight, and then 2 weeks w/out treatments. Another 5 days of treatments and then another 2 weeks w/out. At that point the radiation/chemo combined will start.

My brother and his family are moving to Michigan this weekend, and I am going to be down there for the first week of chemo.

I am writing everything down and these Dr's will grow to love me

They did change him from Stage 3 to Stage 4 due to the size of the tumor in his lymphnodes. I told my Dad that it all boils down to either the treatments will work or they won't...no matter what stage he is. He tends to listen to "negative" people too much.

I think just finally getting started will be a relief. He was diagnosed Feb.19th.

Have a great weekend!!