Nick

Talk to her doctors. Maybe they can reduce the dosage of chemo to a smaller weekly dose.

Does your mother understand what the outcome will be if she doesnt finish treatment?

She must do the treatments or she will not survive this awful disease. I know first hand how hard it is and I wanted to quit too. If I had quit, I woudl not be here right now. Talk to her doctors and nurses where she is being treated. Maybe she needs some pain meds, magic mouthwash to soothe her mouth. She may need anti depressants, many OC patients need that. This is something she can do, its very difficult, but it can be done.

Hang in there.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile