Having been by the side of the "last bed" on three occasions...with one Grandfather dying in my arms...I know exactly what you went through...it's terrible...I'm sooo sorry for your loss. I wish there were no diseases and such...just peaceful passings of old age...My heart feels your pain...God Bless you....


7-16-08 age 37@Dx, T3N0M0 SCC 4.778cm tumor, left side of oral tongue, non smoker, casual drinker, I am the 4th in my family to have H&N cancer
8-13-08 left neck dissection and 40% of tongue removed, submandibular salivary gland & 14 nodes clean, no chemo, IMRTx35
11-4-08 Recovering & feeling better