Hi everyone. My father was just diagnosed with trimodal squamous cancer. There is a mass attached to his tonsils and possibly 1 or 2 lymph nodes affected. Next week is the PET scan. Surgery June 3rd followed by radiation. Everyone is so nervous and doesnt know what to expect. I have heard that the radiation is horrible. My father will lose his tonsils, some bone, teeth, and most likely a few lymph nodes. He is very impatient and stubborn and is having trouble dealing with everything. He is not one to sit around- always active and busy (he's 58). We aren't sure what to expect after the surgery and radiation. Any experiences or advice would be very appreciated.