Tom,

Thank you for your encouragement about being strong.

Being a caregiver to my family member has been by far the hardest thing I had to do in my life in this fight against cancer. I have relied upon every ounce of strength I can find within me. At times, though, this has been very difficult and trying especially at time of first diagnosis and during the many following doctors consultations and their opinions about prognosis and treatment options.

There have been times where I almost lost it. I wish in retrospect that I had found this site from day one and been able to communicate and share experiences with so many caring and wonderful people.


CG to wife;
Jan 2005 DX SCC Tongue T2N1MO; RND surgery Mar 2005; 35 XRT and 4 cisplatin completed Jul 2005.
Dec 2006 tongue surgery, Scar tissue no cancer.
Feb 2010 neck node FNA - negative.
2010 ORN right jaw plus fracture
2015 ORN left jaw plus fracture
Feb 2016 Lower jaw reconstruction by Fibula free flap+titanium plate - Permanent G-tube
June 2016 Difficulty breathing - Permanent Trachea tube
Dec 2019 DX Cervical cancer - Stage 1 - Surgery Jan 16 2020.
15-20 esophagus/larynx dilations