Amen to all that..
The most important thing for any carer is not to lose sight of themselves.. we all put ourselves third.. 1st patient.. 2nd cancer.. 3 me..(well maybe if I have time).. hard lesson but not a good one..if the carer goes down so does the whole pack of cards..
thank god for this forum and my all my friends on it...
love and hugs
Helen


SCC Base of tongue, (TISN0M0) laser surgery, 10/01 and 05/03 no clear margins. Radial free flap graft to tonsil pillar, partial glossectomy, left neck dissection 08/04