Hi, I am coming up for my 3d year of this and my husband and I were on our patio one summer night recenty and we started talking about that first year and he started to cry. This is not something he does, but the memory of all we have went thru is hard. I would have not kept getting "UP" again and going with a positive attitute if it weren't for his constant care and positive attitute.I do not drink but I love green tea, so heres to the caregivers!