I was in the same shape as your dad although he does have 30+ years on me. I wanted to quit & was "coached" through & continued till the end. It is the hardest thing I have ever done in my whole life! I resisted taking my pain meds & was a real rebel all the way through! Everybody goes through differently. As long as he finishes. The chances are better statistically if he completes the rad. Tell him I said it can be done, it just sucks for a while. Erik


dx 2/11/04 scca bot T3 IU 2B MO poorly differentiated, margins ok, 3/16 modest, jaw split, over half of tongue removed, free flap from left forearm - finished chemo & rad treatment 5/20/04