Sandra,

That is wonderful news. I too had about the same situation, they took all of my lymph nodes and all were clear, I understand the joy. My husband was my caretaker and had many of the same feelings you have. But I will say, he was wonderful. He would make me take small day trips with him to keep my mind on something other than the continuing side effects of the cancer. He would listen to me vent, wipe away my tears, make me laugh and listen to my silence. I guess what I'm trying to say is you have to play it by ear. But I will tell you one thing, I felt much better when I forced myself to get up, get cleaned up and forced myself to do at least a small activity. I have been the caregiver for my mother and with her conditions, Parkinsons and degerative arthritis for over 12 years. Unfortunately, I had to put her in a nursing home 5 years ago. So even though not the same, I understand the concern and aniexty that being a caregiver can be. Take care and again, great news. Anne.