Hi Peta,

my boyfriend has tongue cancer, and had his lymph nodes removed, and there were two extra tumors hiding under his chin. I am new to this as well, but this site is helping me to get a better understanding of what to do.

If you stay strong and be supportive for your mother, I think that is the best way of helping her at this time. Some things just take time before it gets better, just keep in good spirits and don't give up.