Thanks so much, Michelle. We really are/were all worried about the lack of interest in anything, and just laying in the bed staring at the ceiling. I can certainly understand depression under his circumstances, but I also know that that kind of depression isn't good, either. Hearing from someone who has been there, done that, and a lot younger, in better general health say that lethargy and being out of it was part of the healing process really puts me more at ease.

I have been through things, true, but nothing at all compared to what my husband and dad are going through, or what other cancer survivors like ya'll have been through. I only had surgery and bounced back after both in a very short period. The only real remnants I have are the constant fear of recurrance and worry that the next time I WILL be needing radiation/chemo, which ain't nothing compared to the real thing! Thanks for the information and encouragement.