Thank you all so much I am sure going to check into these things. I have done alot of thinking and praying and I am sure the Good Lord will be with me as he is with everyone else I think He made me come to this web site. I am not a super religous person but I do believe that things are not done just in random. So again thank you for the input. I am on my way. Holding my head up and hopefully will continue holding it up. Brenda