I agree with Sharlee. I owe alot of my emotional support to this forum. Just being in a community of people who have been through the same things and face the same things is a help in itself. There is a wonderful respect for one anothers knowledge. Sometimes it makes it easier to trust those who have went before us. Tell her about the sight. She will visit us when she is ready. I understand the friends not calling. Well just one but he is my best friend. I think it is natural. We get treatment and the big scare goes away, so people get on with their lives. Try to practice patience with others. I will probably call my friend and just ask him. Good luck to you and your sister. Hang in there. Perseverance wouldn't be such a respectable principle if it came easy.