Hello to all, I am the husband of a stage 4 SCC hard palete beautiful wife. She has learned of her cancer just a little over a month ago, and is having the hardest time coming to terms with it. I am suffering as well, but hers is a suffering I can not begin to grasp. I will be seeing her doctor for the first time Wednesday, and it has advanced to her Lymph nodes, and sinuses. We went from stage 3 to 4a in a month. I will be spending as much time as I can researching this disease, and any suggestions would be welcome.