Oh, and when I quit in 2001, my partner (who I live with) did not. He did agree to smoke only outside and never in my presence. He also hid his cigarettes and lighter where I wouldn't stumble across them. All this helped alot...I still had the horrible stink on his clothes to deal with but at least cigarettes weren't right there in front of my nose all the time! It can be done, even with a smoking spouse. I think it's more of a challenge, but it's possible. You can set a good example for him!

We are both quitting now, it's harder because we were both emotional wrecks that first week and there was no one sane in the house. But, now that it's well underway, things are much easier.