Trisha, Im so sorry for your loss! May Norman rest in peace, free from pain and sickness.

Im sure you are not the only one who has dealt with those kinds of feelings. I cant imagine how difficult it would be to return to places that hold so many memories.

Ive heard from a few close friends who suddenly lost their husbands that bereavement counseling is a huge help. It might be something to check into, maybe you could give a couple visits a try?







Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile