Welcome to OCF, Vicky! Im very sorry to read about your fathers cancer. The best thing you and your family can do is to read and educate yourselves about this disease. We'll be here to help you with info and support.
Take this step by step and day by day. Dr Google is NOT your friend! At the Oral Cancer Foundation (OCF), our info is correct and up to date. Our site is Health on the Net certified to provide reliable medical info. Most other sites are not. Our group is made up of oral cancer survivors and caregivers. We have been thru our experiences first hand. We may not have medical backgrounds or degrees but we will do our very best to pass along what we have learned.
Verrucous carcinoma (VC) is a rare cancer almost always caused by tobacco use. VC is a rare form of squamous cell carcinoma (SCC) which is what the majority of oral cancers are. If your father is still using tobacco, now is the time to quit... for good! Im a former smoker and know its not easy to quit but if he is going to beat the cancer then he must get rid of all forms of tobacco. There are known cancer causing chemicals added to tobacco. Even the e-cigs are not safe with things added to them regardless of what the packaging claims. The only safe tobacco is no tobacco!
Your father will likely have many appointments with different types of doctors. A second opinion would be an excellent idea! He should attempt to get to a comprehensive cancer center (CCC) if at all possible. They use a team based approach so all the specialists are on the same page. The CCCs would be the most experienced in treating rare or complex cases, like your fathers. Smaller local hospitals may see patients with VC once every couple years while a CCC sees them every month. If he would need to travel for treatment, there are free or very low cost housing near all the CCCs. The fees are very low, maybe $10 a night. Theres even some airlines who help cancer patients with free airfare. Just remember... bedside manner is NOT determined by how skilled the doctors are. Bottom line, your father needs to get the very best medical care he can and go with it.
Your father will likely have surgery and radiation (possibly with chemo). By itself, chemo will not eliminate this type of cancer. Chemo will help make the radiation more effective. It also can be used to try shrinking tumors so surgery isnt as invasive. It is a long road and not easy but its doable! If your father is on the slim side he should up his intake and gain a few pounds before starting any treatment. Since his ability to eat will be affected (temporarily), he will want to eat all his favorite foods now, desserts too. The last thing anyone wants to do is to go into treatment with food cravings. Its probably going to be months until your father can eat those favorites, thats why I say eat them now.
Anyone who offers to help your father should be told their name and contact info will be written down. When the time comes, someone will let them know what they can do to help. Theres a million things that can be done to help your father and family while your father is being treated. A load of laundry, walking the dog, mowing the lawn, picking up prescriptions or groceries, sitting with him while he is in the hospital, cooking a meal for your family and driving your father to appointments are all things that can be very helpful when your father isnt feeling well or is going thru radiation treatments.
The publication below may be a bit technical to read but it is from a respected source to help you learn about VC. We have had members who have had VC and been treated for it.
NCBI-National Center for Biotechnology Information...Verrucous CarcinomaList of Cancer CentersUS News Best Hospitals ListMain OCF Website... Financial Assistance including Air travel/LodgingHang in there!!! We're here to help you all get thru this. I hope I havent overwhelmed you with too much info.
