My sister is having her surgery Monday (2-5). She has stage 3 cancer in her tongue. She's having part of her tongue and the lymph nodes in her neck removed. She'll be staying with me when she's released. My question is, what can I do to make things as comfortable and easy for her as possible? In the hospital should I have an erase board? Is there anything comfort-wise that people recommend or wish they had? And once I get her home, what kind of things would make the transition easier for her? I'm sure we'll get input from her doctors, I'm looking for the kind of things that people look back on and think, "hey, that would have been nice" or "that really helped." Thanks so much!!!