Welcome to this extremely informative and caring site. I second the opinion that you should set up a second opinion hopefully at a CCC. The nurse should not have said that to you, but please know that often a spot is just a spot. With what you have already gone through chemo would be much easier than the radiations you have endured if it were to come to that. Stay strong, keep your health up and please stay in touch with us.

Sept 2002 Rt breast cancer no chemo or radiation.
March 2015 Rt tonsil cancer - walnut size lump rt side neck.
March 2015 Scan, biopsy confirm
March 2015 Port, G tube placed, 10 teeth removed.
July 2015 completed 5 chemo/35 radiations
Sept 2015 Cat Scan all clear
July 2016 G tube, port still in place
Ive had Thyroid "graves disease" and Lupus for many years.
4 kidney stone surgeries past 3 mo with over 100 stones still there !

*** Update... Jo passed away 12/20/17 ... RIP Jo ***