Im sorry to hear you are struggling with your recovery. Unfortunately this is completely normal. Many patients take months to adjust to their new tongue. With practice it will get easier. If your tongue needs to have further reconstruction surgery it will have to be after a full year has past. It can take that long to adjust and for the swelling to completely subside.

One pain medicine which I found very helpful was neurontin. This might help ease your pain as well, check with your doc.

Hang in there, In time it really will get better.


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile