Great advice Lynn.
Being scared is totally ok and completely understandable. I don't think anyone goes through this without those feelings. You can allow yourself some time to grieve and be scared, then put your battle face on and go for it!! We are here to help and to listen and be your cheering squad. Hang in there!!
Kathy


Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14