Hi Shauneen, and thank you for coming back. Thank you also for writing frankly about depression. I think it's far more prevalent in general, and especially among oral cancer patients, than anyone realizes. I started an anti-depressant during treatment myself. There is a lot of pressure to act brave, wear a positive attitude, etc. that I think makes it hard for some to even acknowledge the possibility of depression, let alone thier own inner turmoil.

I'm glad that you've found a measure of peace and clarity, even if you had to wrest it from this terrible "cancer dance." And while I never knew Charm, I've stumbled upon his posts and gotten a taste of his wit and character. I sense your wit and character too, and hope you will stick around here and share it with us.

Hugs,
Lynn