Sorry for not replying sooner but I couldnt find this post! (finally the penny dropped when I clicked on posts!)
We went to the doctor and he said that Richard DID have lymphedema, and told him to massage the area, were you lot ever right!you guys are wonderful!


C/G to Husband Richard SCC Op 4/1/2005 T2N0M0,Neck disection, 35% of tongue removed.
Reoccurance 3/2007,Lymph Node same side Positive SCC, Swelled to 2.5 inches. IMRT X35 Cis X3 Completed 33 IMRT Cis x2 carbo X1 MET to lungs post treatment 10/04/2007
Passed peacefully 31st July 2008.