Maybe ask about or see about it. Your treatment choices may be more than you think, but clinical trials may be limited in prior treatment, and with HIV. I have read that HIV patients can do chemoradiation treatment with no more adverse problems similar to non HIV. They do have more recurrences. I mention this because there is better outcome with radiation, rather than surgery alone, in recurrences that's why I'm having IORT, but had surgery alone also twice.
Be well, and good luck with your doctor visit.