Once treatments begin it will all fall into a routine and become much easier. Before treatments begin, anyone who offers to help write down their name and number. Tell them when the time comes you will call them. When things get going dont be afraid to ask people for help. People really do want to help but most dont know how or what they can do. Once treatments begin there will be a million small things that can add up to be a huge help to you.

If you call the American Cancer Society (24X7) they will send you out a form for the doctor to fill out. She can then get placed on a list to have volunteer drivers take her to treatments. As long as she is not very very ill she would be ok to go alone which can help to take the burden off you. Even if they set her up to have a driver for one or 2 days per week, it still will be a big help.

No matter how things go, dont forget to take time for yourself too. As a caregiver you have alot on your shoulders. At least once a week make time to treat yourself. There are many things that can help ease the pressure. Things as easy as taking a walk on a nice spring day, going to lunch with friends or even out to the movies will help take your mind off things for a little while.

Hang in there and dont forget we are here to help.