Heather I hope you will decide to stick around here on the forum. I know things can be difficult in the future for you and your husband and you could need all the help you can get. Ive been here for over 5 years and have helped thousands of members. With my experiences, I know I will be able to help to you.

I know decisions arent easy to make and I do not think you need to hear my 2 cents. All I will say is that people really do become like family around here and please give the forum a chance. In time I think you will be glad you are here. Speaking only for myself, I know Im always happy to welcome a new member and to help them as much as I can.

Wishing you all the best!


Christine
SCC 6/15/07 L chk & by L molar both Stag I, age44
2x cispltn-35 IMRT end 9/27/07
-65 lbs in 2 mo, no caregvr
Clear PET 1/08
4/4/08 recur L chk Stag I
surg 4/16/08 clr marg
215 HBO dives
3/09 teeth out, trismus
7/2/09 recur, Stg IV
8/24/09 trach, ND, mandiblctmy
3wks medicly inducd coma
2 mo xtended hospital stay, ICU & burn unit
PICC line IV antibx 8 mo
10/4/10, 2/14/11 reconst surg
OC 3x in 3 years
very happy to be alive smile