Hi Shirley,
We have all been there. Either on the caregiver side or as the patient so you are in good company. We really "get it" and when you need to vent, and you will, vent away. When you have fears, concerns, questions, we are here. We truly are a family and you will find love and support on these forums. When you have a question or concern, try to find the appropriate forum to post it in. That way you may get quicker and more specific answers.
Hang in there and know you are not alone.
Blessings,
Kathy


Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14