Agreed. I went through the guilt thing when Kev was feeling so bad. I would hurry and eat and then have wicked indigestion. It was really a hard thing to get past. I'll never forget when he sat at the table and had a little bit of dinner, when it had been several weeks since he had done that, our 12 year old had an ear to ear grin and said " I'm glad you're sitting at the table with us Dad. I missed you." Made me cry. Still does.
Tell Jeff to hang in there. Will PM you later.
Love you girl,
Kathy


Kathy wife/caregiver to:
Kevin age:53
Dx 7/15/11
HPV16+ SCC Stage IV BOT/R
Non smoker, casual drinker
7/27/11 Cistplatin, taxotere,5FU 2/3week sessions, followed by IMRT 125cgy x 60 (2x daily) w/Erbitux weekly. Last rad 10/26/11. Last Erbitux 10/27/11
PEG placed 9/1/11 Removed 11/8/11
Clear PET 10/12 and 10/13 and ct in 6/14