Thank you so much for all your generous advice! I really appreciate it! I am feeling such a mix of feelings and trying to practice selective denial. I am now in Florida
taking care of my Dad.

Exactly What kind of ENT should I look for? one that specializes in tongue biopsies?
if so how do i know that or know if they are any good? Also how do I know the labs are good?

Can you please tell me the right criteria to ask?

I don't even know the right questions to ask.

thank you for your valuable time and wisdom.

all constructive comments and wisdom welcome...

Respectfully,

Iz