I expect you and your family will cry together, wipe away the tears and go on together. People will hurt for you and you may see a tear when they think you don't see, but this is one time when a good cry is okay when you need it. Try to be a good patient and let folks help you, I even let someone work on my lawnmower for me while I was down. It takes away the helplessness your church family and friends feel by not being able to do anything. Let them help you. You would do it for them. I would make a list, not a list of demands but just a 'if you want to' list like tending your garden. That ain't work, that's fun.
"We know what God will do in the future because of what He has done in the past." He has always brought his people through the fire.