OCF was a blessing to me as well. Discovered Carnation VHC here and it saved us from having to use the dreaded feeding tube and kept Eddue's weight up.

caregiver for husband
diagnosed with oral cancer May 2011 after 6 mo
node lft side and several in jaw involved
Base of Tongue Stage IVA
7 weeks radiation
Cisplatin-3 chemos (beginning,middle,end) IntraV administration