Wow, I am so sorry to hear everything that has happened. I am glad that you are doing better. I am sure that he has some depression that he is obviously not dealing with. I see that he had cancer in the upper palette. There are very few people on here that have that, it is rare. That is sad that he is giving up. I pray that he is able to deal with this better in the future and get back into the doctors. I also pray that this never comes back for him and he is able to be there in the future for his kids.

Yes, it is not your fault. He was coping in not the best way for him and his family. Again I will put you all in my prayers and wish you all the best in the future. Not an easy thing as the caregiver or the patient.