Thank you all so much, I think it is still sinking in. I totally appreciate the support as you have given me in the past. @Christine, I found a powder to put in a shake, hoping that helps since I really do not feel like eating. Love to all!

Diagnosed May 2002 with Stage IV tongue cancer, two lymph nodes positive. Surgery to remove 1/2 tongue, neck dissection, 35 radiation treatments. 11/2007, diagnosed with cancer of soft palate, surgery 12/14/07, jaw split. 3/24/10, cancer on tongue behind flap, need petscan, surgery scheduled 4/16/10
---update passed away 8-27-11---