Hi Rahel,
the tip of my tongue is numb too (I'm also 4 weeks post surgery). Just saw my doc today and he gave a vague "anywhere from 2 months to 6 months" for nerves to come back but that my tongue may never be the same again ( i think that last part was more in response to it's general fuction rather than the nerves).
He sort of implied I was a little impatient - 4 weeks is a really short time