Thank you all for your advice.As I said in my post we will be going to see the surgeon in the morning and I will be sure to talk to him about this also and see if he can give me stuff to take to social services and see what they can do. I just hate asking for help. I know I need to get over this. I have told Greg he needed to check into disability. He has been working ever since high school. He has not been working much for the last couple of weeks.I will keep everyone posted on what we are told in the morning. Again thank you and God blees you all for your help.

Cindy E